Discovering Yourself

Discovering Yourself

Many people are living but they are living on other people’s decisions and opinions about them, they don’t really know who they are and the abilities in them and because of that the greatness in them is being altered. For you to live through life and achieve greatness, it is important for you to know who you are and these are some important guidelines to discovering yourself:
•MAKING CHOICES:
when making choices, Make the right choices on a daily basis so that you may live an authentic life that is true to who you want to be.when making choices let these guide you:
1. Will your choices propel you to an inspiring future, and not keep you stuck in the past?
2. your choice should bring you a long-term fulfilment and not short term gratification.
3. Your choice should make you stand in your power, and not to please someone else.
4. Your choice should add to your life force, and not rub you of your energy.
5. make choices that will be a catalyst to your growth and evolvement.
6. Your choice should empower you.
7. Your choice should be an act of self-love not an act of self sabotage.
8. Your choice should an act of faith,not an act of fear
9. Your choice should be from from your divinity not from your acts.
Choose wisely, and do your best never to settle for anything less than the best.
•ON RELATIONSHIPS:
Being in healthy relationships can bring out the best in you while being in toxic relationships can be as dangerous as playing with your life. You must know when to quit and let go. As a lady you should adore yourself and don’t accept less than what you deserve.
Say no to convenience relationships!!
Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter  in order to get something: they are trying to find someone who is going to make them feel good or achieve their goals in life but not thinking what they want to contribute to the other person’s life. (convenience relationship).
In reality, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place you go to INVEST, and not a place that you go to HARVEST.
A good relationship should bring joy and fulfillment to you.
•ON LIFESTYLE:
I’m a believer and ever since I was young, I chose God and chose to live for God and I will tell you it’s a decision I have never regretted till date.
Loving God is a lifestyle.
Living for God is a lifestyle.
You can’t be in God and he would not be in you or in your buisness.
Choose God and choose to live for him.
you can’t have a heart for God and not get the heart of God.
Kindness should be a lifestyle. Be someone’s light when they are hopeless.
Give hope to the helpless.
Give love to those without love,be a friend to those who have been abandoned.
Always remember people will never forget how you made them feel, your lifestyle should preach LOVE.
•ON CHARACTER:
Stay humble because humility will push you to win in silence.
Do not let people define you,but you must stay humble because it is strength in disguise!
Pride can steal from you if you are not careful. Stay humble.
Let the reason behind everything you do be to grow minds, to stay happy and to love people. No body will really like to associate with a selfish person, show people you care about them and in return people will equally care for you.
Self control is a virtue, you must know when to stop and think, when to be calm and when to speak up.
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•ON FINDING YOUR PURPOSE:
If you want to be fulfilled, happy, content and experience inner peace and ultimate fulfillment, it’s critical that you know your passion and life purpose. Without a life purpose as the compass to guide you, your goals and action plans may not ultimately fulfill you.
Purpose is essentially what you were put here on earth to do, what you live for and why you exist.The answer is to make the world a better place. We all have a role to play on earth. It’s our duty, our job, our calling, and our purpose to make the world a better place. We do that by HELPING and SERVING others.
 Many people are searching for the meaning of life and who they are. I will tell you in a few words:
Purpose is SERVICE! your purpose is found in serving others, what can you do to serve people and still be happy and fulfilled doing it?  What do people appreciate you for? If you can answer this questions then you may be aware of your purpose on earth.
These points doesn’t  just make you a complete woman but a woman of honour too!!
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